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How to be confident at doing anything

Pepi Valderrama
2 min readMay 29, 2023

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Let’s take a deep dive into the magical world of confidence today and learn how to be confident at doing anything. Have you ever wondered how some people just exude confidence, like they’ve got this secret fountain they drink from each morning? Well, guess what? You can tap into that fountain too. You just need to discover and understand the “confidence cycle.”

The confidence cycle is not some hocus-pocus but a proven thesis. It’s like a virtuous circle that starts small but grows with every loop. So how does it work? Well, strap in because we’re about to explore this journey!

Step 1: Build Skills

Skills are the seeds of confidence. Whether it’s public speaking, coding, painting, or salsa dancing, pick a skill you’re passionate about and dive right in. Learning gives you a solid foundation upon which you can build your tower of confidence.

Rome wasn’t built in a day, and neither is confidence. Set realistic, achievable goals for yourself. Remember, even the smallest accomplishments fuel the confidence cycle.

Step 2: Take Action

The theory is great, but confidence truly blooms in the realm of action. Step out of your comfort zone and apply your skills. Made a mistake? Great! That’s how we learn.

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Pepi Valderrama
Pepi Valderrama

Written by Pepi Valderrama

I’m an inspirational and motivational life coach and author who is passionate about helping you become the best version of yourself.

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